Advent with Kids: 76 (or so) Ideas for Getting Ready for Advent

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26 October 2014 by thaliakr

Advent with kids! Lots of ideas for celebrating at home | Sacraparental.comYay! Advent is my favourite season in the church calendar, and it’s almost here!

Actually, Lent was pretty cool this year, too, with our superduper Lent with Kids series, but the inspiration for that came from all the fun and surprisingly helpful things we did at home during Advent.

So here we are! I wanted to get this series started with plenty of time for people to think and prepare, rather than just starting when Advent starts, which in 2014 is Sunday, 30 November.

A couple of years ago I wrote out a bunch of ideas for celebrating Advent, for adults and for kids, and you can check it out here: Anticipating the Anticipating.

I thought it was time for a comprehensive post with everything you need to get excited and prepared for Advent, so here goes! There’s something for everyone, I hope, including people without their own children, so read on and pick a couple of things that appeal to you.

The Why: Putting Christmas in Context

Advent is about two things: anticipating Christmas, and putting the story of the baby born in a stable in the broader context of the Big Story of God’s work in our world. The story doesn’t start with Jesus being born.

Matthew and Luke are the biographers in our Bibles who tell the ‘traditional’ Christmas story: shepherds, angels and so on.

Matthew begins his account of Jesus’ life – before mentioning the wise men or the star, let alone the miracles and parables – by putting him in the context of his whakapapa, his family line. He gives a symbolically patterned genealogy stretching back to Abraham, showing that Jesus’ arrival fits in with God’s whole plan for Israel and the world beyond.

Luke goes back even further, giving a fuller whakapapa back to Adam, and God, and then telling the story of Jesus’ baby cousin John before we even meet Mary and the angel.

Both are saying to their original readers: ‘Look! This isn’t out of the blue. It’s been a long time in the planning. God’s long-awaited blueprint for a better world is finally being rolled out!’

That’s why many Christian churches start the countdown to Christmas four weeks before, with Advent. We get ready to celebrate Jesus, reminding ourselves of the bigger plan he is a part of, and of how much the world was anticipating him even before Mary was waddling around with swollen ankles.

The What: 76 Ideas for Celebrating Advent with Kids

Everything I’m going to suggest will be about either counting down to Christmas – capturing a sense of anticipation – or about putting the story of Jesus’ birth in the context of the Big Story.

I’d love you to add to the list with other ideas, resources and links in the comments. You can even add a photo if you like!

Advent with Kids: 76 (well, more actually!) ideas to get ready for Advent. Pick your faves! | Sacraparental.com/

Get an Advent Calendar

My son loved his Canterbury Cathedral Advent calendar (a gift from his very attentive English godfather) so much that we kept it and looked at it every so often through the year.

How they work: each day or night, a child gets to open the next little door in the calendar, to reveal a picture that helps fill out the Christmas story.

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There are two basic kinds: chocolate and no chocolate :)

If you’re after a fairtrade chocolate one – with a treat as well as a picture behind each door – just search online for ‘fairtrade chocolate Advent calendar’ and in the UK and US you’ll have heaps of options. SO MANY. They’re harder to find in New Zealand, so here are a couple of links:

The Cruelty-Free Shop does a dairy-free one.

Fishpond imports the Divine one (out of stock as I write, but I imagine they’ll be available soon).

Chocolate aside, Advent calendars that tell the Jesus story in some way aren’t too hard to find, but might be drowned out by Father Christmas and snow (doubly irrelevant in the Southern Hemisphere) in many mainstream shops.

Try googling for a nearby Christian bookshop, or go to your closest cathedral or large church that has a gift shop and you should be in luck. There are plenty of options online of course (I’ve just spotted Lego and whisky versions – not in the same calendar, mind you, so someone’s missing an opening in the market…).

This is a lovely opportunity for people who don’t have kids of their own to be involved in Advent with someone else’s kids. Coordinate with parents, and go hunting for a cool calendar you can present to a small person you know. You could even phone them each night (or sometimes) to ask what was behind the next door and have a little conversation.

The ritual can be as brief or elaborate as you want to make it. Our boy had such a good time that it became quite a big deal. We would look at all the windows he’d already opened, talk a bit about the ones he was most interested in, open the next one, and maybe follow that up with a longer story (from a book or our heads) about where that symbol fitted in the Christmas story.

You could tie it to Bible story readings or other books pretty easily – though you may not know ahead of time what’s coming up yourself! If that appeals, there are some Advent calendars (like this one I spotted online but haven’t explored myself) that come with a book of extra resources to help, so keep your eyes peeled for one of those.

Make an Advent Calendar

If you’re both crafty and keen, you could always make your own Advent calendar to suit your situation.

Pinterest is your friend (whether you’re a member or not – though if you like this kind of thing, why on earth aren’t you on Pinterest?). Go to Pinterest.com and type ‘make advent calendar‘ in the search box. Click on one you like and go down the rabbit hole for instructions and ideas.

Or here’s one collection of 25 different creative calendar variations if you want to bypass Pinterest.

Some craft shops have make-your-own kits that you can fill with whatever you like. If you’re making your own, you could choose to put all sorts of family activity notes in (as well as Christmas story things – maybe even double up, with some days having a piece of the Christmas story and also an activity). Pick whatever mix of craft, baking, writing, watching, reading and service suits your household. You could include things like:

  • Go to a carol service
  • Decorate the Christmas tree
  • Add the next piece to the Nativity scene (see below for more ideas on this)
  • Wrap presents
  • Make Christmas cards
  • Do some Christmas baking
  • Service activities (see the next heading)

Have any of you made your own Advent calendar of any kind? Got some pics you can put in the comments or send me? I’d love to see!

Change the world!

Make a list as a household of some great, fun things you could do together to make the world a better place. (Or just put some of them in your Advent calendar if you’re making your own.)

Some ideas to get you thinking:

  • Deliver groceries to a food bank
  • Wrap presents together for grandparents
  • Make Christmas cards for schoolfriends/neighbours/shopkeepers
  • Bake Christmas treats and wrap or deliver them
  • Go carolling and sing to people who might appreciate a little shot of variety and the energy of kids: people in a hospital or rest home, maybe even a prison
  • Invite someone from outside your family to Christmas dinner, or another special occasion
  • Volunteer at a food bank, or somewhere serving a free Christmas meal
  • Make up parcels of personal hygiene products and/or underwear for prisoners

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See my post on letting kids know they have the power to change the world for more ideas. And if you have more to add, please leave a comment below.

Make a Jesse Tree

A Jesse Tree works on a similar principle to Advent calendars.

You make or draw a tree – anything from an elaborate fabric creation to a piece of paper on a wall – and once a day during Advent, you discover the next symbol and put it on the tree.

Stacey's Jesse Tree with symbols attached.

Stacey’s Jesse Tree with symbols attached.

The main difference is that usually a Jesse Tree counts down to Christmas by telling the stories of Jesus’ famous ancestors from the Old Testament.

For all you need to know about Jesse Trees, see Stacey’s wonderful guest post about how her family does it, with lots of links to other resources.

Read through a Jesse Tree Book

If you’re more a story kind of person than a make-and-do person, a great easy option is reading one story every day from a Jesse Tree book. The one I know best and recommend is by Geraldine McCaughrean.

Fantastic book for Advent! | Sacraparental.com

This is a collection of stories of Jesus’ ancestors, one for each day of Advent. All the work done for you!

Light Advent Candles

This was by far the biggest part of our Advent last year, and was the jumping-off point of the Lent for Kids rituals we invented to follow on.

Most kids love candles, right?

It’s traditional in many churches to light five candles, usually arranged in a wreath, one for each Sunday of Advent, and one for Christmas Day.

There are lots of different patterns of candles to choose from, with different names, colours and themes for the candles. See a range of options here, here and here (or just follow mine below!).

So we did our own version at home, based on the pattern of candles we did at the church I was pastor at before my son was born: green for hope, blue for peace, yellow for joy, red for love, and a central white candle for Christ, to be lit on Christmas Day.

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Whatever colour your candles are, you light them each day (at dinner time worked best for us), accumulating as you go. So for the first week, you light the green candle each night, and then in the second week, the green and the blue, and so on. You add the new candle each Sunday.

This is one of my very top recommendations for Advent with kids. The structure of lighting the candles one by one last year, when my son was just two, gave us the opportunity for repeated conversations that ended up creating our own theology-for-toddlers.

Each night at dinner we lit coloured candles, and he could proudly tell any visitors what each one was for:

‘What does the green candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus [is] our HOPE!’
‘And what does hope mean?’
‘Things [will] get better!’

Of course he only had a glimmer of understanding about what this all meant, but can you imagine how that will grow if we do the same thing every year of his childhood? This is the kind of spiritual foundation I really want to build for him. So the candles are definitely coming out again this year.

The full script that emerged over the month of Advent in our house was, if I remember rightly, something like this:

What does the green candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our HOPE!’
‘And what does hope mean?’ (explain this in whatever terms suit the kids in your life, then summarise on following nights once you’ve all settled on an explanation)
‘Things will get better!’ (the summary we ended up with.)

What does the blue candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our PEACE!’
‘And what does peace mean?’
‘Jesus helps us get along with everyone.’

‘What does the yellow candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our JOY!’
‘And what does joy mean?’
‘Jesus helps us be happy, even when things are hard.’

‘What does the red candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our LOVE!’
‘And what does that mean?’
‘God loves us enough to give us Jesus.’

We use a candelabra because I’m too lazy for a wreath, but you can do a version that is as simple or elaborate as you like, of course.

Check craft shops for wreath-making supplies and craft or gift shops for a range of coloured candles. Go for big candles, remembering that the first one you light will be lit 20 or 30 times!

Bake up an Advent storm

The lead-up to Christmas is full of baking and cooking opportunities, and most kids love to pop on an apron and help in the kitchen.

You could make treats of any sort for gifts (suggest your favourites in the comments, eh?), or do some kind of special seasonal baking for giving or eating.

Some ideas (thanks entirely to Pinterest) – the links are more for pictures and ideas than recipes:

Simple gingerbread houses (for older kids to do themselves, even!)

Advent calendar cookies

Stained glass cookies

Away in a Manger cookies

Edible Nativity scene

Cloves in oranges to make the house smell delicious

Letter cookies to spell relevant words

Pizza in Christmas shapes

Special bread for St Lucia’s day, anyone?

Read Bible stories each day

Last year in our house instead of an actual Jesse Tree book – the McCaughrean one was a bit old for our 2-year-old – we followed (well, we started to) this plan of Old Testament Bible stories which was also handily based on the chapters of the Jesus Storybook Bible.

The reason we didn’t end up following it much is that I’m of the opinion that much of the Bible should be R16 and isn’t that suitable for young kids – including many of the stories that are most commonly told to children, like David killing Goliath and Abraham almost sacrificing Isaac.

That’s a whole nother topic though, so I’ll just leave it to your discretion to figure out what stories to tell. Or if there’s popular demand, maybe I could come up with an alternative Old Testament not-too-gory story list… Let me know what you think.

Assemble a collection of Christmas books to read

There are lots of great Christmas story books around, from ones telling the straight Nativity story to others drawing on themes of Christmas, or telling the story from an alternative perspective (a cat in the stable or the donkey carrying Mary).

You could make a special Advent reading corner where all your Christmassy books live. Or if you have enough books – get in early to the library and you might be in luck – you could even count down with one each bedtime, especially if you alternate with a children’s Bible story collection.

I’d love to hear your recommendations in the comments below, and I’ll work on a separate post with some personal recommendations [Update: here it is! Top 10 Christmas Picture Books (that feature Jesus)].

To start with, though, here are five favourites, with links to other people’s reviews. I’ve put them in rough age-order, with the simplest first.

Cowshed Christmas, Joy Cowley and Gavin Bishop

Advent with Kids: one of my favourite kids' books for Christmas: Cowshed Christmas, Joy Cowley and Gavin Bishop | Sacraparental.com

The Nativity, Julie Vivas

Advent with Kids: one of my favourite kids' books for Christmas: The Nativity, Julie Vivas | Sacraparental.com

Room for a Little One, Martin Waddell and Jason Cockcroft

Advent with Kids: one of my favourite kids' books for Christmas: Room for a Little One, Martin Waddell and Jason Cockcroft | Sacraparental.com

Jesus’ Christmas Party, Nicholas Allan

Advent with Kids: one of my favourite kids' books for Christmas: Jesus' Christmas Party, Nicholas Allan| Sacraparental.com

The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey, Susan Wojciechowski and PJ Lynch

Advent with Kids: My favourite Christmas story book: The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey, Susan Wojciechowski, PJ Lynch | Sacraparental.com

Assemble a Nativity Scene or Crèche

One of my very favourite things to do in Advent is to put out the Nativity scene. We have a set of wooden figures from Trade Aid (who usually have a great collection, and purchasing from here or somewhere similar means your money supports fairtrade business projects in developing communities – a very Christmassy thing to do).

Our figures are pictured in the graphics for this series (I had a lot of fun getting them out early to photograph).

Nativity Scenes and lots more ideas for Advent with Kids

There are few different ways you could use the figures throughout Advent.

You could either set them all up as a family activity one day, or you could heighten the anticipation by doing it gradually, adding a new piece every few days, or a new set (the shepherds and sheep; the wise men) each Sunday, with Baby Jesus not arriving until Christmas Day itself.

Another cool variation is to have all the pieces out, but travelling through the house throughout Advent. Mary and Joseph might travel from Nazareth (the kitchen?) to Bethlehem (the mantelpiece or coffee table?) over the course of the month, and the shepherds might start in their fields (do you have some pot-plants inside, maybe, or some green Lego to make some grass for the sheep?) before being visiting by angels and sent to the stable.

The wise men probably visited last – maybe even a year or two after Jesus was born, given the reaction of King Herod – so they might need to start all the way by the front door, slowly crossing the desert to see Jesus and his family… Maybe they don’t arrive until 6 January, the traditional date of Epiphany, marking their visit.

Figure out what will work best for your household, but there’s lots of fun to be had, so I strongly recommend making a big deal out of a Nativity set.

Read a longer book aloud throughout Advent

Last year Chris said his family – including teenage kids – read a book aloud through Advent, a chapter at a time. Their usual was Jostein Gaarder’s The Christmas Mystery, and comes recommended by other commenters, too.

Great book to read aloud through Advent: Jostein Gaarder, The Christmas Mystery | Sacraparental.com

Another option that springs to mind for households with older kids is Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. I found other recommendations online (just google ‘Christmas chapter books’) but didn’t find things that I had read myself, so I think that’s the end of my own recommendations.

I’d love to hear your ideas, though, so add them in the comments!

Advent in Art

Every year the marvellous Mark Pierson, wherever he’s based at the time, puts together Advent in Art, a curated collection of five pieces of art that tell the Advent and Christmas story. There’s a matching set of reflections and readings and ideas for further action.

The resources are primarily printed cards, but also available online at adventinart.org – the site goes live when Advent begins. You can sign up there for weekly email updates.

This year, I’m super excited to say that the featured artist is Chinese painter He Qi. You can see a sneak preview at World Vision (where Mark works and produces Advent in Art as a resource for staff).

Art for Advent: Annunciation, He Qi | Sacraparental.com

Annunciation, He Qi, used with kind permission, all rights reserved. Visit heqiart.com.

These are wonderful resources for reflection for adults or to use with children. Ask some questions as kids look at the details in the painting and let them ask you questions.

Each year I also blog through the Advent in Art paintings, with an eye to helping people use the artwork for conversation with kids, as well as just for personal reflection. You can see previous years’ blog posts:

2012: paintings by James B Janknegt

2013: paintings by Wayne Forte

Art for Advent: Nativity, James B Janknegt, 2002, oil on canvas | Sacraparental.com

Nativity, James B Janknegt, 2002, oil on canvas, reproduced with kind permission, all rights reserved.

I’ll be going through this year’s Advent in Art series too, so please do feel free to join me.

You might like to sign up at the top right for email updates whenever there’s a new post here, or follow Sacraparental in some other way, if you want to keep up with Advent in Art or Advent with Kids posts (or anything else).

Watch an Advent movie or two

I’m keen for your input into this one. I’ve newly discovered the useful resource site, Common Sense Media that rates and recommends all sorts of media for kids. But their ‘Holiday’ list is pretty heavy on snow and Santa, and full of things I haven’t seen myself. But check it out – there are still some gems there. Possibly better for our purposes is their list of movies that inspire kids to change the world!

My favourite Advent movie isn’t for kids (except maybe older teens): check out my earlier post on Children of Men.

Other commenters recommended Love ActuallyThe Nativity, Lord of the Rings and The Matrix (and the Die Hard movies…) when we were talking about Advent movies, but that was a discussion among adults, rather than recommendations for movies to watch with kids.

So: hit me with your ideas, please! Leave a comment with your favourite Christmas/Advent movie that’s suitable for children. Thanks!

Do some Advent craft

I’m not yet at the craft-with-kids stage of family life, really, but I have consulted the trusty Pinterest and can suggest these ideas if you or kids you know would be keen:

Make some Jesse Tree ornaments (see Stacey’s post on Jesse Trees, too)

Make an Advent wreath (several different ideas for different ages) and then optionally put some candles in it (see above).

Make pretend Advent candles if the real deal is too risky for your household!

Explore traditional St Nicholas stories with craft activities.

Make simple Christmas tree ornaments.

Make Advent window decorations.

Make paper-plate Christmas angels (you could add them to your dynamic Nativity scene activities – see above)

Make this gorgeous Christmas ‘tree’ from driftwood or sticks. (The blog post in the link is in German, but there are lots of photos make the process clear!)

And of course, if you’re early enough, make your own Advent calendar – 25 ideas collected here (phew!).

Pop on some Advent music

I’m not advocating shops playing carols – or worse, songs about Santa – in August, but I do like bringing out my own collection of Christmas music in December.

Whatever you’re into, I bet there’s a Christmassy something you could find.

We have a couple of world music Christmas collections from Putumayo, and Handel’s Messiah will definitely feature, as well as this New Zealand contemporary collection and some actual carols.

Great music for Advent and Christmas! Putumayo, Christmas Around the World | Sacraparental.com

I stumbled across this enormous list of hymns and carols with Advent themes if that interests you.

Sing!

Depending on your hemisphere (and other factors), Christmas carols may be most appropriate in Advent (if you’re in the Southern and heading away on holiday at Christmas) or after Christmas (more common in the North, where the holiday period is shorter).

But wherever you are, there will probably be a carol service you could attend – try ringing a big Anglican church if you’re not sure where to find one – and maybe even a Carols by Candlelight gathering outdoors (is this mostly a summery Southern Hemisphere tradition?).

Or sing at home, with the help of a piano, a stereo, YouTube or just your voices.

Remember that singing – especially with other people – has been shown to improve mood and be generally great for your health!

Share your singing with others: go carolling with kids around the neighbourhood, or in a hospital or rest home.

Advent with Kids: 76 (well, more actually!) ideas to get ready for Advent. Pick your faves! | Sacraparental.com/

How’s that to get you started?

I’ll be honest with you, I haven’t counted the number of ideas in this post, but 76 doesn’t seem an unreasonable estimate :)

There’s so much room for more, though, and I would really appreciate you leaving a comment with tips and ideas from your experience.

Please feel free to keep in touch with Sacraparental throughout Advent by following Sacraparental on Facebook (daily extras), signing up for email updates (the box at the top right) and/or following me on Pinterest (the Advent board will be particularly relevant just now!).

And please leave your ideas – or even your feedback on this collection of ideas – in the comments below.

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18 thoughts on “Advent with Kids: 76 (or so) Ideas for Getting Ready for Advent

  1. Christina says:

    Oh no I want to do them all! I get so excited that it is easy to overcomplicate things in a very busy period. This year I found Jesse tree ornament printables that are based on the JSB, (http://joyfullyweary.blogspot.co.nz/2011/11/our-advent-calendar.html) previously, I have done the Jesse tree from 3 different bibles and read advent calendar stories and done the advent wreath! I have also ordered Jotham’s Journey a storybook for Advent – I haven’t read it myself yet but it came up when I searched for books for advent and looked at the right level. I also prefer to do Chrismons ornaments (which I hang in rows from the ceiling) rather than a tree with traditional ornaments.

  2. kiwienzian says:

    My brother has used Stephen Croft’s book ‘The Advent Calendar’ with his kids since they were 5 and 7. They’re 9 and 11 now and still very keen on it. It has daily stories that relate to why Jesus came (but in a fictional way – not a Bible story), each connected to a verse from Isaiah. We don’t have kids but used a copy as a couple one year and appreciated it as a one-off, but it wasn’t good enough to make it an annual ritual so we passed it on to a family at church with lots of kids. It isn’t based on the actual dates of advent for a particular year, it simply starts on November 30th. It’s British (my brother lives in Scotland) so not sure how available it is here, but I did see it on the Wheelers website for $30.

  3. cannopener says:

    We found a felt advent calendar at the school fair. My husband and I made little figurines out of modelling clay (three or four at a time throughout the Advent season because we didn’t get round to it earlier) which became part of a nativity scene centred around a little clay stable that a friend with Down syndrome had given us. There were some angels, a star (which we blu-tacked onto the roof of the stable), sheep, shepherds, camels, magi etc, in more or less random order, finishing with Mary and Joseph and finally the baby Jesus for Christmas morning.

    The figures were about half the size of my little finger, with a sausage for a body and a ball for a head. My husband was especially proud of his little donkey. We’re looking forward to using them again this year.

  4. Mel says:

    My favourite Christmas books include The grinch who stole Christmas, God gave us Christmas, The crippled lamb, Bernstein bears and the joy of giving, the legend of the candy cane, the legend of the Christmas tree, The Christmas story by Patrica Pingry,

  5. Melanie Carroll says:

    One from my childhood: Amahl and the Night Visitors by Gian Carlo Menotti. This is an opera written for children. If your family enjoy classical music and you’re looking for something different then it could be worth checking out. The music is beautiful, there is a strong storyline good characters and some gentle humour. Amahl and the Night Visitors is available on i-tunes and there’s a whole bunch of videos on You Tube – including several home videos of amateur productions. There is also a picture book with beautiful watercolour illustrations but you’d probably need to check out a secondhand book shop to get hold of a copy – Abe Books has some.
    Amahl, who is disabled and his widowed mother are very poor. One night travellers from afar, on their way to visit the Christ child, knock at their door seeking shelter. When Amahl, who is something of a storyteller claims that there is a king at the door, his mother of course does not believe him. Later that night Amahl’s mother is caught stealing some of the gold the travellers have bought with them for the new king to help secure a better future for her . There is of course a happy and special ending to the story.

  6. Melanie Carroll says:

    oops sorry, should be to secure a better future for her son

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